4th Uncle, Xi SuSu kindly shared his thoughts to Jeanie and me in the below cherished memories of Dad and Mom:

Dr Khim Moo Tham was the sec­ond child of Mr and Mrs Thum Chong Tai, while XiS­usu is fourth child in the fam­i­ly of nine chil­dren. Dad(Khim Moo) was born in the beau­ti­ful island called Penang in Malaysia on 20/03/1943 and grew up in a small vil­lage called Kuala Ketil in the state of Kedah in North-East Malaysia, where he received his pri­ma­ry edu­ca­tion. In 1958, he was sent back to Penang to receive his high school education.

 

Dad was a favorite son of his par­ents and loved dear­ly by all his sib­lings. He was always very help­ful to all young and old, in the village.

 

I still vivid­ly remem­ber a very very touch­ing act of his when he was still in his pri­ma­ry school years. An old lady (whom we used to call popo) injured her big toe which soon was bad­ly infect­ed and became sep­tic, with mag­gots. She was in pain and no one dared help. Then, came our aspir­ing Doc­tor who helped to clean the wound with water and alco­hol, dug out all the mag­gots, applied anti­sep­tic cream and dressed the wound which was soon heal.

 

Your Yeye (dad’s dad) was always pray­ing and wish­ing for a doc­tor in his fam­i­ly and was very please to learn of the inci­dent. My dad then told his wife (dad’s mum) that Khim­Moo would most like­ly to be the first doc­tor in the fam­i­ly. My dad was RIGHT!!

 

Dad was very intel­li­gent and always score top marks at school and was accord­ing­ly appoint­ed a School Pre­fect team leader and com­mand­ed high respect from both his team mem­bers and stu­dents at large and feared by delin­quent stu­dents.… , part­ly because he was also a mem­ber of the Penang Ching­Woo Mar­tial Art school and spe­cial­ized in Pray­ing Man­tis fight­ing steps, among oth­er self defense skill.

 

Although both mum and dad attend­ed the same high school then, they nev­er met until they both came to Tai­wan, for dad to receive his Uni­ver­si­ty med­ical edu­ca­tion and train­ing while mum (Ching Guai) was learn­ing to be a qual­i­fied phar­ma­cist. Dad was already in the Uni for a year or two when mum came over to Tai­wan. Being a senior, dad act­ed as a big broth­er and ‘tutor’ for mum. One thing led to anoth­er, they soon found them­selves attract­ed to each oth­er and could­n’t avoid the cupid arrow and.…naturally, fell in love. Phar­ma­cy being a short­er course, mum grad­u­at­ed first and remained in Tai­wan to accom­pa­ny dad.

 

They mar­ried soon, in Tai­wan, after dad grad­u­at­ed. They then returned to Penang and Kedah to meet up with their respec­tive in-laws.

 

My par­ents were very proud to have such a gor­geous daugh­ter in law and my dad soon wrote to me (I was still in Perth, study­ing) about the vis­its and show­ing off their ‘film star’ daugh­ter in law to all rel­a­tives and friends. With­out doubt, we all were very very fond of our new fam­i­ly mem­ber, 2nd sis in law.  To be hon­est, I was very proud of my Er Ke and was deter­mine to match him, by rop­ing a very very attrac­tive and adorable girl friend..and wife whom my mum (for my dad passed away when I fin­ished my last paper for my Uni degree) would read­i­ly approve,

 

Er Ke and Er Sau then moved to the US and were liv­ing there since. .…and have two very love­ly, beau­ti­ful and VERY intel­le­gent children.


Wilson Tham

Son of Khim & Ching Tham

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